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Sexy Hints -- G-Spot Orgasms I was a skeptic, but now I'm a believer-the Grafenberg spot is for real, and it not only explains intense sensations that women have been trying to express for years, it also helps other women to experience totally new types of orgasms! With stimulation of the Grafenberg spot, women have orgasms that are by all accounts different from those produced by clitoral stimulation alone, orgasms that feel deeper, last longer, and are often more satisfying. Forget that old controversy about clitoral versus vaginal orgasms. Recent research on the Grafenberg spot indicates that women are capable of a whole continuum of sexual responses involving both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. If you've never had an orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, finding and stroking your Grafenberg spot will open up a whole new experience for you. And if you've always had a "special spot" in your vagina that you've tried to hit during intercourse, you'll be able to pinpoint it exactly. As with so many things, knowing what you're doing gives you control over it. It took me quite a while to find my Grafenberg spot - and I know my body pretty well. So be patient with yourself, take the time to get to know your vagina, and note these suggestions. For your first explorations. sit down or get on your hands and knees. It will be easier to feel the spot if you are aroused, so take this excuse for some self-pleasuring before you start. You'll be more acutely tuned in to sexual sensations, and you'll know more clearly when you've hit the Grafenberg spot. When you're aroused (or even after you've already come), put a finger in the vagina--your middle finger, as it's the longest-and locate your reference points on the upper (forward) surface of the vagina wall (see diagram) first the lumpy Skene's gland just inside the opening, then the hard area that you can feel through the skin (that's the corner of the pubic bone), then a smooth area leading back to the cervix (which you may or may not be able to reach. depending on the length of your finger). Come back to the pubic bone with your finger and hook the finger in back of it, finding a little hollow just before the smooth area begins. Your finger will be pointing up toward your navel at this point, not back toward the cervix and the anus. Probe this region firmly with your finger, and when you hit the Grafenberg spot you'll feel a jolt and a momentary urge to urinate. If that feeling alarms you, you may want to quit at this point-but don't!! Many women miss extra sexual pleasure because the association between sexual arousal and possible urinary incontinence makes them uneasy. Empty your bladder, if the feeling is overwhelming, and try again - now there's nothing whatever to worry about, and you can continue to stroke the Grafenberg spot (which in many cases will swell and harden until it feels like a small bean under the surface of the skin) until the urgency to urinate passes and turns into a warm, deep, sensual feeling that is distinctly different from clitoral stimulation. You can sometimes intensifyt he feeling by pushing on the corresponding area of the lower abdomen while stimulating the spot from inside. When women try to describe the difference between orgasms that focus on direct clitoral stimulation and those that involve manipulation of the Grafenberg spot, they say that clitoral orgasms feel sudden, sharp, explosive, and that the sensation is limited to the pelvic area and very narrowly focused. Grafenberg orgasms feel deeper slower, more relaxed, and affect their whole bodies in a warm wavelike spread of sensation. In practice of course, both the clitoris and the Grafenberg spot often get stimulated, either together or one at a time and the sensations get mixed up. Probably the majority of women's orgasms are mixtures of the two kinds of stimulation. But recognizing what separate Grafenberg stimulation feels like can help you to widen your range of sexual feeling and have a better understanding of your body. Intercourse And The Grafenberg Spot It's easiest to find the Grafenberg spot with your (or your lover's) finger, but it's also quite accessible to the penis - in fact, some of the most satisfying mutual lovemaking takes place when a man strokes the Grafenberg spot with his penis giving both of you intense simultaneous stimulation. I've found that the best way to stimulate the area is to use rear-entry positions. The slight upward tilt of his penis as he slides into the vagina means that he comes into direct contact with the Grafenberg spot nearly every time he thrusts, and the result is nothing short of fantastic! And men, take note: with increased control of your PC muscle, you II be able to tip the penis up even more, enabling you to aim for that little hollow and drive your woman wild. Many women also like-the woman-on-top positions because they can control the angle of the penis and make sure that it connects with the Grafenberg spot. (See Chapter 6 for more variations on this). Female Ejaculation One of the most exciting reports coming out of the current Grafenberg spot research is that some women have the capacity to ejaculate. There has been speculation about this point for many years, and women who did experience copious, sometimes spurting secretions have worried about whether they were normal or not. 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